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What Causes Communication Skills Training for Leaders to Fail?

July 18, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: It is no secret that leaders that are smart and capable. During the course of their careers, they have perused best-selling books on leadership, taken leadership training (including associated assessments), and attended multiple communication skills training lessons. But with all of those training opportunities under their belts, they still fail to effectively lead. Think of the fruitless and unconstructive discussions at meetings and business divisions that somehow never seem to make a profit (or scratch the surface of their potential profit). If you’re a leader facing similar circumstances, but are unable to determine the root cause, you have come to the right place. In this post, you will learn why communications skills training for leaders often fails and what can be done to counter this.

What Causes Communication Skills Training for Leaders to Fail?

Less Emphasis on the Practical Aspects of Leadership

The fundamental flaw in most books and courses on leadership development is that there a greater emphasis on the theoretical aspects of leadership instead of practical ones. Sometimes, there can be an information overload. The need of the hour is for communication skills trainers to teach leaders about what has to be done in their position and the courage to take some flair for it.

On-the-Job Training

While communication skills training programs for leaders involves simulated events where trainees are required to take charge of the situation, followed by critique of how well they were able to do. The limitations of such a model will be discussed at the end, but here the emphasis is on on-the-job leadership communication training.

This means the mentor or coach accompanies the executive at the workplace as the latter leads a session, conducts training, or oversees a meeting. This is where the actual leadership skills will be tested, instead of a safe, simulated environment. The coach has to make sure that s/he doesn’t interrupt or correct the trainee during any task, but only to offer insight during breaks in private.

Having Superficial Notions about Communication

Another reason communications skills training for leaders often fails may have nothing to do with the “tool” and everything with the “technique’ involved. Most leaders only have a surface level understanding of what communication is. For them, it is only about emails and memos. However, communication is a diverse topic that has to be approached from various angles in order to be effective (and every angle therein!)

The fundamental principle is the clarity and consistency of messages you send to your workforce. Bad leaders send mixed messages and keep their employees in the dark. This creates friction, and is a primary cause of low job satisfaction and retention. Good communication skills training should address this issue if they are to make leaders better.

Focusing on the Training Aspect

Finally and most importantly, is the mere fact that such leadership development programs place emphasis on “training” instead of “development” of leaders. These two words are not interchangeable, contrary to popular opinion. Training, in its essence, is rote learning and one-way reception of fixed norms and principles, while development is dynamic. It focuses on unique personalities of each person and the end goal is helping trainees achieve their true potential as leaders.

SUMMARY

To sum up, simply going for communication skills training is not enough for leadership development. You need to make sure that the leadership development actually focuses on developing leaders. This involves teaching real-life lessons, clear-cut communication, and paving the way for future development.

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: communication skills training for leaders, leadership development

5 Questions to Ask Yourself To See If Executive Coaching Is Right For You

July 17, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: Executive Coaching engagements are often shrouded in “mystery” regarding specifics of what expectations are (and associated accountability/responsibility moments). At Tip of the Spear, we conduct Centered Executive Coaching engagements in a “cards flipped up” manner so that heading into engagements Coach, Coachee, and Sponsoring Committees are all on the same page to maximize the results of the initiative. Herein are the questions you should have answers to prior to the engagement…

5 Questions to Ask Yourself To See If Executive Coaching Is Right For You

Is the Executive Coaching right for you?

Most leaders in leadership development would prefer to think that Executive Coaching engagements are only applicable to those who are already languishing in a state of despair in their career, which is far from the truth. This isn’t a “penalty box” type of engagement, rather a positive leadership development activity. Practically speaking, every leader regardless of his or her position could (should) receive benefits. After reading through this, you will be shocked of just how much you need this!

Before you begin (or refer) a coaching engagement, you should ask yourself the following questions to see on which side of the coin you lie:

  1. Am I sure of the Reliability of my Planning Capabilities?

It naturally comes to a point where executives find themselves caught up in a difficult situation in their businesses. In such situation(s), you need either confidence and experience or the help of a coach. Coaches remove any doubts and provide you with a well-proven strategy and guidelines to deal with situation(s) at hand and make a solid plan for the future.

  1. Are My Leadership Visions and Objectives Still as Sharp as They Were at the Start?

The day-to-day activities often make a leader “derailed” from their ultimate purpose or goals. A coach will come in handy to clear any doubts and remove the mirage preventing you from visualizing far and wide. As a result, you understand where you are and where you are heading (even helping to set SMART goals: Specific, Measureable, Attainable, Relevant or Realistic, and Time Specific).

  1. Two Business Paths to Take, Which Works the Best for my Company?

If you come head to head with such a scenario, you need to make decisions. One who will use the facets of coaching to guide you appropriately in which decision(s) is the best for you after having put your interest and other factors into consideration.

  1. Social Duties Call! Do I Attend to my Personal or Company Duties?

Do you find particular problems in comfortably balancing your career and personal life? Many people find themselves in this situation unknowingly; at times, they don’t even realize until something big crops up. An executive coach is useful in diagnosing priorities you face.

  1. Is your business’ Performance Deteriorating and You’re in Need of Solutions?

Any business undertaking, especially those involving making profits, typically experience a period of boom and slump; when specific attention to detail is required. Climbing back to boom requires a lot of man-hours and efforts to be invested. Employing a coach in this will give you the help you need to avoid potential extinction!

SUMMARY

If you ever find yourself answering any of the above leadership development questions, then it is time to start looking for an executive coach. Maintaining a clear mind and the ability to make solid and tangible decisions as a leader is not a luxury you can avoid. Staying at the top of your game at all times guarantees the success and overall performance of yourself (and company)!

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: centered executive coaching, executive coaching, leadership development

The Leadership Challenge: Should You Rehire Former Employees Like Lebron James?

July 16, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: If you’re looking to rehire a former employee that has terminated (either by themselves or your organization’s doing), there are certain aspects that you should weigh before making the decision. At Tip of the Spear, we believe that “those that once were that are no longer, should stay as such”… Na Na Na Na, Na Na Na Na, Hey Hey Hey, Goodbye!

The Leadership Challenge: Should You Rehire Former Employees Like Lebron James? 

Lebron James recently made headlines (again) for deciding to once again grace Northern Ohio with his presence, by returning to the Cleveland Cavaliers. For $42.2 Million 2-year contract is one of the richest in history, and word is that he has his eyes set firmly on the future (Good thing, they might not make the playoffs next season!) So we got to thinking whether or not rehiring former employees makes sense in the business world (let alone the sports world, which some would argue is one of the largest businesses on the planet). Here then is a list of song-parody pros and cons you should consider before rehiring former employees:

It Was The Heat Of The Moment (Thank you Asia!)

Sometimes dismissals, or terminations occur because of the “heat of the moment” when cooler heads clearly could have prevailed. I worked one time with a sales manager who would repeatedly belittle his staff. His turnover as a result was deplorable (single-handedly the worst leader I’ve ever seen at nearly 500% annual turnover… Yikes!) He would fly off the handle at a moments notice, and as such lose his “cool” and fire people. Sometimes, and this was the rarity, people would actually want to take him out back and fight him (Yes, it was Texas for those of you wondering).

Regardless of what the temperature of the moment is, it’s important to note why people left (What caused their dismissal from the organization). Detailed notes should be kept, and placed in appropriate HR employee files, secured under lock and key.) Exit interviews should also take place, and corresponding leaders identified as reasons for dismissal should be coached/counseled accordingly.

Time Heals All Wounds, Except Those It Shouldn’t! (Who Knew Jon Secada sang this?)

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They say that time heals all wounds. Yes, with the passing of time wounds do seem to improve. However, I equate this to “smoke” and “fire” where the wound is the smoke and what caused the wound to be the fire. If you’re job as a leader is to put out the fires before they occur, then why would you look to potentially re-open old wounds (The scarring is twice as bad!)

Employees that depart should have clear documentation regarding why they left. There return should not be allowed.

Nobody Does It Better (Thank you Carly Simon!)

Ok, sometimes there is such great intellectual property with an individual for an organization that there is often little/no one that can do their job function the same.

However, in a Google-world where everyone is now 3-clicks away from learning everything they need to know, does the concept of intellectual property really come into play for employment? I worked with a leader who typically rehired his previously dismissed staff, only to have them hold him hostage. When he tried to “escape” from his hostage position, there was little he could do (The chains were often too tight!)

Always be recruiting, and look for transition of knowledge in your staff in case of pre-termination termination.

SUMMARY

If you’re considering rehiring an employee after they’ve been dismissed from your organization, you might want to think again. Best of luck Cleveland… I hope it’s a long season!

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: executive coaching, leadership development, lebron james, the leadership challenge

The Best Executive Coaching: Key Qualities You Must Have!

July 16, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: The performance of a leader can be greatly enhanced with executive coaching. It’s just not the “practice” in and of itself of executive coaching, it’s the “perfect practice” that’s required in order to increase effectiveness and results. The Tip of the Spear Ventures’ Centered Executive Coaching methodology is based on proven leadership qualities and targeted results of the leader/business.

The Best Executive Coaching: Key Qualities You Must Have!

 

So what are these essential qualities of Executive Coaching (or the Tip of the Spear Ventures’ version titled “Centered Executive Coaching”)? Here are four (4) key qualities that if you’re investigating a coaching leadership development program you’ll want to insure are incorporated:

  1. Leaders Lead

We’ve seen time and again that successful leaders lead. In other words, they not only come up with the mission direction for the organization, but lead the organization themselves by taking the initial first-steps. While leaders who don’t take such “lead by example” moments can sometimes find themselves out in front of an initiative, one of the principles of Centered Executive Coaching consists of target (goal) identification as well as action plan creation. It’s in this action plan creation that the leader is put into play as the main character!

  1. Empathy

Empathy has been defined as the intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing feelings, thoughts or attitudes of another. This is self-explanatory in the sense that a leader has to put themselves in the shoes of their clients if they are to understand the client’s problem. From that perspective, they can put in place appropriate methodologies to combat the client’s behavior that negatively impacts on their performance.

  1. Ethical Nature of Professionalism

A good executive coach has a set standard of ethics to follow. There are those “do’s” and “dont’s” that they should follow religiously (NOTE: All Tip of the Spear Centered Executive Coaches subscribe to the International Coach Federation’s Code of Ethics (CLICK HERE to review the ICF’s Code). This is because ethics is one of the cardinal rules of all the professionals, especially those offering coaching services. Therefore, it is a case of preaching water and drinking water, not the other way round. Any demonstration of a lack of ethics and personal responsibility is unacceptable.

  1. Ability to Put Ideas into Action

They say that you should be able to put the ideas that you theoretically teach or come up with into action. Leading by example is the phrase. When a leader does this, they will be able to show their constituents that what they teach is not only theoretical, but practical as well. In that case, they serve as inspiration to the clients, which serve as an efficient way of turning around their behavior for the purposes of positively influencing their businesses.

SUMMARY

From the discussion, we’ve illustrated that certain qualities are indispensable when it comes to good Centered Executive Coaching interactions. Leaders and executive coaches have to display qualities such as being ethical, having empathy and being good leaders themselves in order to produce good leaders through leadership development.

So which other qualities do you think a good leader/coach should possess in order to achieve the objectives of Centered Executive Coaching?

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: centered executive coaching, executive coaching, leadership development

Why You Need Executive Coaching More Than You Think!

July 15, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: Executive Coaching can help you become a better leader, period! With statistics reflecting that more and more successful leaders are engaging in executive coaching, we thought it would be interesting to take a look at the specifics behind “Why?” they are considering this as a preferred leadership development offering… Enjoy!

Why You Need Executive Coaching More Than You Think!

Many leaders would like to consider Executive Coaching, or the Tip of the Spear Ventures’ Centered Executive Coaching as something ordinary. On the contrary, this is a subject that holds a gravity that cannot be compared. It is exactly what should be done if you purely understand what it means to manage your time well, how to make timely and logical decisions, and to strike a balance between the personal and professional target in life and needless to say, meet your best productivity and job effectiveness among other reasons.

Executive Coaching Equals Balance

Does Executive Coaching help you balance your life? As an executive, your life majorly revolves around your office and other related duties at perhaps the expense of your family and personal life. This should not be the case. Having an executive coach helps one strike a balance between their personal and professional goals. This makes one forget about minor stresses that may be very injurious to their lives (or business).

Executive Coaching Equals Better Decision Making

In the same vein, the aspect of decision-making is very significant. Both in the office and at home, the value of making quick decisions cannot be overrated. Centered Executive Coaching equips you with the important techniques to handle the hurdles at the workplace as they come. This is of great relevance especially if anyone wants to achieve success in life (both personally as well as professionally).

Executive Coaching Equals Better Time Management

Time management can be thought of as a real disease. Any successful person in the context of holding an executive position cannot afford to not manage their time effectively. In the current life where change is the only constant thing, there seems to be a short time but with a lot in store to be done in a single day; quality time management is a must. This is a skill that never escapes you if you are being executive coached individually with by a coach who understands your tight schedule.

Executive Coaching Equals Practicality

Centered Executive Coaching is very practical and its applicability in real life is something that has passed the test of time and events. Unlike being coached as an organization, your executive coach leads you through matters that affect you and you alone. This is attributed to the fact that nothing else has an agenda in the process except yours. This personal touch ensures you feel extremely esteemed and makes you implement what you have learned with the vigor and the urgency it deserves.

Executive Coaching Equals Better Leadership

Logically speaking, not every being on this earth has a burning desire to lead. You are capable of managing, but perhaps not being a capable leader until you go through Centered Executive Coaching. This coaching exposes you to the most current challenges and their solutions one-to-one (1:1), plus how to go about solving future challenges when they arise. As a matter of fact, clients have said that Centered Executive Coaching helps keeps them competitive amongst their peers.

Spoiler alert- reading through this post is one thing- getting started is a completely different one. When will you get started? When will you reach the level of leading with influence!

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: centered executive coaching, executive coaching, leadership development

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