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Top 5 Leadership Communication Skills That Will Get You Promoted

November 6, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: When it comes to moving up the corporate ladder, it is things like integrity, a polished appearance, and communication skills training for leaders that take you to the very top. But there is a caveat. While years of integrity and robust communication skills take you to the C-Suite, only one mistake can bring you back to square one. In this post, we list 5 Communication Skills that will lower the chance of this happening… Enjoy!

Top 5 Communication Skills That Will Get You Promoted

#5 Excelling At Public Speaking

This is a given! Reaching the proverbial ‘Ivory Tower’, doesn’t mean that you get to lock yourself in a tower (or room), detached from your workforce and clients. On the contrary, you need to face the audience, both in front of you and behind the cameras sometimes. Note that a leader needs to be proficient at both group interactions and one-to-one interactions.

#4 Create Engagement

This follows from the previous point. Leaders, both men and women, have the ability to make their presence known when they are addressing a room. This not only entails oratory skills and the ability to make the message as concise as possible, but also good posture and body language. We typically see leaders attempting to lead, but with little/no one following them! With this in mind, during your presentations/conversations you might want to look to engage your audience with questions.

#3 Exude Self-Confidence

As a leader, you get to make all the decisions and get all the credit for the organizations success. But as mentioned at the outset, the leader gets all the blame, because s/he is expected to know all the answers. Think of it as success being the father of many, while failure is relegated to fatherhood of a few. As an emerging executive, it is your job to have an opinion, and stick to it. But more than that, you also have to develop the ability to make your opinion known and accepted by your workforce without being confrontational.

#2 Enter Empathy

Many executives feel that they should be at an arm’s length from their workforce. However, true leadership entails that you engage with the people who work with you. This means that you improve your listening skills and make your audience feel valued. Turn your attention towards them completely and maintain eye contact. This is will cause your workforce to believe that they have a leader that listens to them. This will also allow them to see you as someone that can relate/understand where they are coming from (i.e., empathy).

#1 Laugh at Yourself

This doesn’t mean that you become a stand-up comedian. However, leadership communication skills do involve a sense of humor and the ability to engage people in casual conversations from time to time. You should also use some self-effacing humor from time to time while also taking cues from culture headlines to improve the receptivity of your message.

Summary

Being promoted involves that you ramp up your communications skills, especially drawing attention towards yourself speaking, while gauging the audience’s body language and facial expression to see how well they are receiving the message.

If you’d like more information about Tip of the Spear’s Business Advisory Services, consisting of Centered Executive Coaching, Leadership Development through ‘The Leadership Challenge’ methodology, and Communication Skills Training for Leaders use the CONTACT US page of this website.

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10 Leadership Communication Skills of Great Leaders

November 4, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: Why study communication skills of great leaders? Well, simply because great communication is one of the major denominators (if not the only one) between social, political, and business leaders across the globe. And since we stress so much on communication skills training for leaders, it is only logical that we take some cues from those in key organizational positions that are performing at what we consider to be a ‘great’ level. Simply put, if you want to excel as a leader in your organization/industry, make sure you have the following 10 key communication skills embedded in your leadership toolbox… Enjoy!

10 Communication Skills of Great Leaders

#10 Engage With Your Workforce

As an executive, you may have to send emails and memos to your workforce on a regular basis. But whenever you get the chance, forego corporate communications and engage with dialog with others. When you engage with people in conversation (as compared to monologues), you automatically increase the effectiveness of the message.

#9 Gather Facts Before Taking Action

This follows from the previous leadership communication point. When you engage with your workforce on a regular basis, you will generate honest feedback instead of sanitized versions of the truth. The benefit is that during times of conflict, you will have all the facts needed to thoroughly evaluate the situation. As a result, you will make impartial decisions as compared to executives who are so detached from their subordinates that all they get is one-sided information.

#8 Clarity is King

In today’s corporate world, time is a rare commodity, especially if you are operating in a highly competitive industry, or one that is constantly undergoing change, such as technology. If you need to make split-second decisions and want your employees to be informed of a change in company policy, then just get straight to the point. This is especially true if you are relaying bad news, such as a drop in cash flow. Get some pointers on getting straight to the point from Churchill’s WWII speech: ‘the news from France is very bad….’

#7 Speak Only to Add Value

Improving your leadership communication skills is an essential part of leadership development, but this does not mean that you increase the frequency of speaking to your workforce. Speak only when it’s necessary, and do so only to add to the listener’s experience. Otherwise, people will come to resent your interactions.

#6 Welcome Criticism

This is the true mark of the leader. The leader doesn’t shun or shout down dissenting opinions. Instead, he welcomes as an opportunity to learn more about what people around him are actually thinking. This takes us to the next point…

#5 Listen More

Great leaders know that communication isn’t one-way traffic. There is great wisdom in listening to what others have to contribute to a discussion, even though you may have the final say. In fact, just by the (not so) simple act of listening, you will learn a lot, which is necessary to stay on top of your game.

#4 Body Language and Eye Contact

Communication doesn’t only refer to strong oratory skills. You also have to take non-verbal cues into account, especially body language and eye contact. The way you stand, your hand gestures, and your eye contact with your audience plays a major role in the receptivity of the message.

#3 Body Language of the Audience

Conversely, you also have to pay attention on the body language of the listener. Also try to take cues from his facial expressions to gauge if he truly understands the message.

#2 When you Speak to All, You Speak to None

When your messages are directed to everyone without any specificity, people will have an excuse to avoid personal responsibility. However, since leaders not always have the luxury of dealing with people in one-to-one settings, you should the develop the habit of tailoring your messages in a way that each person in the room feels that you are talking to them.

#1 Know your Material

Finally, if you want to command authority from your listeners, you need know your material really well. Only when you have subject expertise can you get people getting interested in what you have to stay, and this will positively influence the response you get.

Summary

Communication skills are essential if you want to mature as a leader. The job of a C-Suite executive is not an easy one as s/he has to hold their organization together, and this is only possible via robust communication skills.

If you’d like more information about Tip of the Spear’s Business Advisory Services, consisting of Centered Executive Coaching, Leadership Development through ‘The Leadership Challenge’ methodology, and Communication Skills Training for Leaders use the CONTACT US page of this website.

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: communication skills, leadership, leadership communication skills

Will Your Leadership Poor Communication Skills Get You Fired?

October 16, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: Does having the necessary qualifications and certification in your field guarantee job security? While as a leader you know good education improves your chances of getting hired, staying on that job and being promoted is an entirely different animal. Leadership communication skills typically requires dignity, perseverance, and most importantly, communication skills training for leaders. This is the total package of leadership development, which is perhaps the only way of achieving long-term success. Likewise, failing to learn essential communication skills spells doom for everyone in the organization, including C-Suite executives. This article lists communication five (5) blunders that can (and should!) jeopardize an executive’s career… Enjoy!

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#5 Flirting on the Job

It should go without saying, but a leader we met with last week was unceremoniously dismissed from this organization of 10+ years because he flirted on the job. Many actually see flirting as a way to climb up the corporate ladder. Here at the Tip of the Spear Ventures firm, we don’t promote Machiavellian, Venus, or even Cupid-like tactics. Instead, we look to provide genuine leadership development education through the proven Leadership Challenge methodology. Hence, take our advice and refrain from flirting, as it can easily be taken the wrong way (I’m not certain there is a “right” way here!)

#4 Emailing News That Is Best Delivered in Person

As a leader unfortunately we have to at times deliver bad news (Hopefully this is the minority of the time). This bad news could include something significant to the organization’s employee structure, such as layoffs. When you deliver such news via email, stakeholders (those being relieved of their duties, as well as those staying) will obviously lack body language and other non-verbal clues needed to deal with the emotional response following the message. As a leader, there also will be an opportunity for you to stand and face the unpleasant music (See point #3 below). That is why as a leader you should always convey bad news in person, and picking up clues from the recipient’s body language and facial expressions whether they are comprehending the key parts of the message or not. Clarity could go a long way in minimizing long-term disruption.

#3 Shying Away from Difficult Conversations

This follows from the previous point. But along with delivering bad news, a leader also needs to give negative feedback from time to time. When you avoid such conversations, you are giving way for small problems to escalate into larger ones that will ultimately reflect negatively on you. So, deal with negative behavior head-on. First listen to what the employee has to say about his performance (listening being a key leadership communication skill as well) and see whether the issue is genuine or not. In any case, you need to have the ability to communicate assertively in order to be heard by your workforce.

#2 Not Maintaining Eye Contact

Everyone knows that you listen with your ears, but maintaining eye contact is essential to let the other person feel that you are actually listening. Body language matters when it comes to leadership communication skills. Hence, if you fail to maintain eye contact, this not only is considered a sign of disrespect, but people will also think that you are a (to use the term) ‘shady’ person.

#1 Beat Around the Bush Messages

Finally, a sign of effective communication is the right choice of words so that you can communicate your message in the shortest amount of words possible. Think of Twitter: If you had to deliver your message in 140 characters or less, what would you say? How would you say it? This is a trait to be sought in the fast-paced corporate world of today. On the other hand, going on ceaselessly about a single point makes people think that don’t know what you are talking about.

Summary

In short, without effective communication skills training for leaders, you are not likely to last long and achieve your full potential in the work environment, no matter how high you stand in the organizational hierarchy. You need to be respectful of your employees and use nonverbal cues when communicating, such as eye contact. Most importantly, you should have the ability to both encourage and discipline stakeholders.

If you’d like more information on Tip of the Spear Ventures’ Communicate with Influence series, specifically aimed at communication skills training for leaders, use the CONTACT US page of this website.

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Improve Your Leadership Communication Skills in IT

October 14, 2014 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

The Point: When we talk about leadership development, especially in the context of communication skills training for leaders in IT, most of the discussion is general in nature. It fails to take the intricacies of different industries and organizational structures into account. For instance, how should a leader communicate in an IT company? This role comes with its unique communication issues, considering that IT jobs typically attract introverted and shy applicants (Something we’ve seen time and again at Tip of the Spear in our Centered Executive Coaching initiatives with IT Leaders). In this post, we discuss three (3) communication skills training for leaders in the IT field… Enjoy!

Improve Your Leadership Communication Skills in IT

#3 Building Rapport

Although this is not a rule, but as mentioned at the outset, the IT industry typically attracts introverts. For example, some of the most successful software developers are introverts because this job requires problem solving and independent work. The same is true of data processing managers.

Hence, communication skills don’t come naturally to people who work and even excel in this industry. However, the key to IT and corporate success is building rapport with your team. Even though you work with technology, your employees, partners, and customers are all human beings. This is why you need to go out of your way to regularly communicate with and develop rapport with them. This doesn’t mean that you spend most of your 8-hour shift chit-chatting, but the occasional lunch, team meeting, or even a casual email can prove sufficient.

#2 The Art of Selling

Creative people, especially those in the IT sector, are not the best salespeople either. Hence, communication skills training for leaders should also include pointers on how they can and should deal with clients.

As an IT professional, you may typically know more about your craft than the client (internal or external) you are serving. However, never forget the Golden Rule of Business: The customer is ALWAYS right, even when they are wrong.

Even if the client is 100% wrong, instead of fighting them, you may need to learn to disagree in a way that doesn’t offend the client. And if the client may come off as sounding stupid, you still have to give them the chance to save face by saying something like ‘I completely understand your perspective. Here is what I think…’

In similar vein, you should never take the clients comments about your work personally. This will only make things more problematic (and if you’re like the majority of clients we coach, you’re looking to fill  your day with less problems, not more!) This will be a test of your leadership communication skills for sure.

#1 Shun Arrogance

Being highly creative, IT people have a tendency to defend themselves when there is a work dispute (see selling skills addressed above), and for the most part, the other person interprets this as arrogance, which is disaster for corporate relationships. No one is telling you to agree with everything people say, but you should make a conscious effort to listen patiently, even if your argument is 100% right!

Summary

To sum up, even if the IT industry is a technical and creative one, there are corporate interests at stake that can only be achieved with sound communication skills. These include being diplomatic with clients, improving listening skills, and shunning arrogance.

For more information on Tip of the Spear’s Business Advisory Services where we specialize in providing communication skills training for leaders, executive coaching, and leadership development training use the CONTACT US page of this website.

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Why Leaders Should Communicate with Influence?

September 4, 2013 By Sam Palazzolo, Managing Director

We run into a lot of leaders that are looking to hone their leadership skills, and nothing does more to propel their leadership capabilities as much as solid leadership communication skills.  In this post, we’ll take a look at why a leader should look to communicate with influence.

So communication, what’s the deal as a leader?  Well, as one of our clients told us, everything in leadership boils down to your ability to communicate effectively.  The key word there is effectively! With solid communication skills, everything is possible.  Without solid communication skills, everything appears to be a struggle (or is difficult to accomplish).  Here are a few benefits as a leader when it comes to communicating with influence:

  • Raise visibility
  • Increase promotability quotient
  • Leverage yourself as a credible source
  • Raise your self-image
  • Show that you can collaborate/cooperate with others
  • Encourage and foster a team atmosphere

Ever look at yourself from these perspectives?  If you’re honest and on-target, you probably have.  If not, your people (team members, peers, and superiors) do!

What’s the Point? – Effective leadership communication is not an option!  You must bring your A-game so that you can hit your target for each and every communication encounter.

If you’d like to find out more about why leaders should communicate with influence, and more importantly the “How to” in order to implement/execute better communication skills as a leader, register for one of our upcoming Communicate with Influence sessions through the Javelin Institute.

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